Emergency Essentials: Be A Wise Virgin

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Essential is quite a thought provoking word.  What do I think is essential to my life?  My happiness?  My safety?  My sanity?  Emergency essentials, now there’s a list to make!  Come help me make it on this last day of National Preparedness Month…

Be a Wise Virgin

Five of Them Were Wise, by Walter Rane
Graphic courtesy of LDS.org – “Five of Them Were Wise” by Walter Rane.

If you’re a Christian, stop me if you’ve heard this one; everybody else, I have a little story.  Well, really its a parable told by the Master Teacher, Himself.  If you turn to Matthew,  chapter twenty five, in the Bible you’ll find a story with a double, even triple or more, meaning.  For those of us who are not that religious, don’t worry; I’m not whomping up a sermon, I’m just making a point.  Here’s what Matthew recorded:

Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom.  And five of them were wise, and five were foolish.  They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them: But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps.  

While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.  And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him.  Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps.  And the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out.  But the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves.  

And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut.

Now, there are about 67 different Sunday School lessons and chats over lunch that we could pull out of this one story but I’m going to focus on the most basic and that’s this:  stuff happens.  Big stuff, life changing stuff, stuff we plan and stuff that just comes out of nowhere.  There’s no way we can have emergency essentials lined up for every potential personal, familial, political, professional or natural disaster.  Even the coolest prepper dude and the most conscientious mom is not going to be able to do everything.  BUT, we can all do something to, as Matthew goes on to write, “watch therefore”. 

The Bridegroom wasn’t asking for the moon; He just needed the wise virgins to have oil in their lamps.  Now, some might look at this story and think those wise virgins were a bunch of selfish brats.  Why couldn’t they just share their oil so that everyone could have some and they could all go party?  I have several responses to this and one is, to be honest, not seemingly very Christian.  Want it?  Grow up.  Its nobody else’s job to take care of you, just like its nobody else’s job to take care of me.  A certain amount of oil was needed to last the night; some brought enough and some didn’t.  Its not brain surgery, its oil.  We prepare to take care of ourselves because nobody is obligated to do it for us.  Period.  And look, it was the Savior who said five of them were wise and five of them were foolish – if someone has a problem with that, they can take it up with Him.

But beyond that rather pragmatic line of reasoning there’s the simple truth that providing emergency essentials for ourselves and our families is really more about the experience of the process than it is about the list of items in your basement or bug out bag.  Living in a provident manner, preparing and providing for ourselves, is a lifestyle and there are skills to be learned as well as food to be put by.  Somehow this process always seems to include learning to live more frugally, more thankfully, more practically.  The lessons learned and the lifestyle changes that occur aren’t something that you and I can simply gift to another person.  Even if we could somehow download our emergency preparedness efforts into someone else’s head, its most likely that the information wouldn’t make any sense because it would have no personal frame of reference.  As Linda Burton, a spiritual mentor of mine recently noted, “Spiritual [or intuitive] oil can’t be shared.  Personal acts of dedication can’t be given.”

Emergency Essentials

Many of us already know that developing a pattern of preparedness is vitally important and then there are those of us who just aren’t there yet.  Either way, its hard to know where to start.  Never fear!  I know awesome bloggers and when I asked them to share with me their best preparedness posts, I had a huge list in a matter of minutes.  Brace for impact.

Why Prepare Emergency Essentials?

Are you still not quite convinced?  Are you still imagining “preppers” as those weirdos in tin foil hats?    Or, do you have family members that aren’t quite on your same bandwagon?  That’s ok – its only a place to start.  You may want to read this article from the Prepared Ninja, Reinforcing the Basic Need for Preparedness.  Here’s An Open Letter to Family and Friends from Ed That Matters on his ideas about the need to prepare.  The Bug Out Bag Guide gives quality, not too overwhelming advice on How to Start Prepping.  Common Sense Home has just 5 Simple Preparedness Basics.  The Rural Economist has a seven part series on Getting Prepared for Beginners – this was a great series of posts on the basics and not overwhelming at all.

 Emergency Essentials Preparedness for Families l Homestead Lady

Start with B.O.B.

A good place to start, if you’re new to the whole preparing emergency essentials thing is a BOB – Bug Out Bag.  They’re also known as 72 hour kits, grab and go bags, emergency packs and that kind of thing.  Preparing emergency essentials for three days is a lot smaller, but no less vital, a thing to do than gathering supplies for long term food storage or learning to cook off grid (more on those topics in a minute).  BOB is a nice, friendly name – start with BOB.  To help get you started, we’ve written a short e-booklet on how to create a healthy, holistic BOB.  We wanted everyone to have access to it so we actually give it to you free when you sign up for our newsletter.  Like this:


But wait, there’s more.  Here are our sister articles on preparing a BOB for your baby and improving upon you BOBs for babies and children – both have free printables!  Survival at Home has a really cool post on filling your BOB with items you bought at the dollar store – sweet!  Survival Weekly shares with us 8 Common Bug Out Bag Mistakes – and, yeah, I commit the first one but with five kids, I have no idea what to do about it!  Food Storage and Survival has a great article about putting together a BOB for your car – oh, did I forget to mention you need one in your car, too?  And your office but don’t worry because the Weekend Prepper has you covered there.  Ok, I’m totally including this next one just because it was  wicked cool article…and in case you may be in the market for a new car.  Survive Hive does The Ultimate Bug Out Vehicle Comparison.

Emergency Essentials

So some emergencies are things like natural disasters and it tends to be easier to motivate ourselves to prepare for those because they’re scary.  Its just human nature to need motivation to do something  new or hard.  Here’s some fire to light under your tushies because I love you.  Lil’ Suburban Homestead shares their preps for a winter ice storm – I lived in NC for six years and I KNOW about ice storms.  Its not hail, y’all.  They’re ICE.  STORMS.  And they’re just not right.  Common Sense Home shares what they do to get ready for any winter storm.  Now that I live in Utah, I take winter very, very seriously.

Food Storage

Another good motivator is food.  I don’t know anybody who actually enjoys being hungry.  Like many religious people, our faith observes fasting days (once a month usually) and I love the process of that and what I learn and how grateful I become for a piece of toast or a glass of water.  BUT, I wouldn’t want to do it for more than 24 hours (a typical fast) and certainly not long term.  I see several problems with that scenario.  When deciding what and how much to put into your long-term food storage supply, take it nice and easy.  “It is not requisite that a man should run faster than he has strength,” so says one of my canonical books.  Buy just a little something extra at the grocery store this month and then start reading this list of articles:

You’re welcome.  Now, don’t forget the water storage, too.

Also, learning how to Grow Your Own Food can save you money (especially if your family is large) and provide you with food that is pesticide and GMO free.  Yes, growing food takes work but you’re reading an article on emergency preparedness so, clearly, you are under the impression that taking care of yourself and your family requires work. 


Another motivator to get emergency essentials together is our health.  Mom With A Prep shares 10 Frist Aid Skills Every Parent Should Know.  Its not something we’re comfortable thinking about but there is the possibility of large scale illnesses striking and overwhelming our medical professionals and facilities – what then?  That’s a long answer, but here are a few ideas from Food Storage Moms (number 12 is important – just sayin’) and Herbal Prepper (Yeah, that second herb won’t be hard to come by – just visit my lawn!).  For some simple herbal combinations for health that you can make yourself, just visit our link on the topic.  You can order your herbs from our affiliate Mountain Rose Herbs, if you’re not ready to grow them yourself. 

Easy peasy.  Here’s how to encapsulate your own herbal supplements – money saver!  If you want to know more about herbal medicines for your family, please visit our affiliate Herbal Academy of New England – amazingly simple and thorough online classes for regular people.  Love them!  Just click the banner below to learn more.

Herbalism Courses for all levels

Off Grid

So what if the grid does go down?  It doesn’t have to be caused by a political coup – a computer hacker or an earthquake is probably more likely to cause us to loose public works at the moment.  Have you ever run electricity drills with your family?  You know, you shut off the electricity to everything and see how long you can go before you go nuts.  Its a particularly powerful lesson in summer when you shut off the AC or in winter when you shut off the heat.  And don’t think that if you use natural gas, you’re completely safe from service interruption; Survive Hive has a really good article you might want to check out called Natural Gas: Can you Depend on it?. 

If you decide you want to be proactive, you can practice your outdoor cooking skills now – we have a whole category on the subject as we stumble along, learning how to do this.  The Off Grid Cooking article is of particular interest here.  I still have a bunch of recipes I want to share with you this coming fall on some things we’ve tried and several that failed, so the category will grow.   If you’d just like to see how it is living without electricity, turn in off and run some drills as Food Storage Made Easy recommends.

Melissa K. Norris has a great article called 11 Ways to Cook Off Grid Without Power.  And if you want to know anything about a family living off grid, just visit Trayer Wilderness – Tammy’s family is constantly inspiring me!


Did I lose you back there or are you ok?  Let’s face it, if you’ve read to the end of this article, you’re probably one of those who are ready to either begin to gather these emergency essentials in earnest or step up the preparations you’ve already made.  Bonnie Oscarson said, “Where much is required, much more will be given!”  There are so many mentors out there – you do not have to try and organize this venture all on your own.  Providing for your family, filling your lamps with oil, is a big task but there are countless people able to help along the way. 

 All is safely gathered in girls

This time of year is all about gathering, isn’t it?  We’re bringing in the harvest and soon we’ll be gathering our families together to celebrate our bounty and the coming festive season.  Before that happy time descends upon us, let’s take a few moments and examine what we more we can be doing to prepare to care for those we love to the best of our abilities in any circumstance.  We can’t do it all, but we can do something.  And its time.

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7 thoughts on “Emergency Essentials: Be A Wise Virgin

  1. When I was growing up my family would try to go a week without lights once each year. It was fun for us kids! Of course, kids don’t stay up at night which makes it easier 🙂 We never turned it completely off though.

  2. Wow! This is amazing! I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the part about preparing is more about the process, than just gathering things together! I needed this today. We have been learning all about preparedness the last year or two. We have 8 kiddos, that range in age from 17 to 8 months old. The only problem we have is that the willing ones are the youngest and can only do so much. Our olders are wanting to spread their wings and be *doing* important (to them) things, not working in the garden or milking the goats. It is hard to impress upon them the importance of this being a lifestyle, something we need to always be working on. Some get it, some don’t. We don’t know too many people who think being prepared is something that needs to be lived. A few people that have mentioned that they agree, won’t talk past that. Sigh.

    Anyways, all that to say…..I really needed this post today, and am so glad you took the time to put all this information together!


    1. Thank you for sharing that, Kerri! Sometimes you wonder if you’re helping at all, so I really appreciate you taking the time to comment.

      I know what you mean about trying to get your children on board. My son, strapping lad that he is, really is more of an indoor person so getting him to do outside chores has been…a chore. I recently discovered that he likes to cook, though – I didn’t think to ask the ten year old boy if he likes to cook and that was my mistake. The other morning I asked if he wanted to make breakfast while I went out to harvest the plums and tomatoes, which he really didn’t want to do. He said yes! We ate excellent waffles and the harvesting got done.
      He still has outside chores just because he lives here but I’m grateful to have found something he’s passionate about that is also helpful to the home.
      Now, if I could just find a kid who was passionate about ironing. Ugh.

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