Whether you already have your own meaningful family traditions, or your family is new and you need some inspiration to create some, these resources can help. Plus, read about some of our favorite homestead family traditions! There are over 15 tradition-starter ideas here, as well as tradition-building books for you to read for further inspiration. Take the time to build some new family traditions this year!
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The Importance of Family Traditions
All throughout my childhood, my family was adamant about our traditions.
The first fire of the season was lit on Halloween, even if that meant we turned on the air conditioner. (I’m from California so the air conditioner was on a lot come Halloween.) We read scriptures and a “fun” book every night, Mom lying in the hall between our bedrooms as she read out loud. We camped every year at the same KOA in Watsonville, California and visited the freezing cold Pacific Ocean rain or shine.
And, of course, like every other family who keeps them for special occasions, we ended up using the “good dishes” under no circumstances.
I have veritable armies of memories that sweep down my consciousness like Tevyah belting out “Traditions!” at the top of his lungs. Childhood was a a tricky thing to maneuver sometimes. Knowing what came with the next month or the next season was always a source of comfort to me. Part of my personal cannon, includes an admonishment from a prophet of God to seek after the best traditions and leave less illuminating ones behind. Thereby passing on wholesome traditions to the next generation.
Which Traditions Have the Most Value?
Even as a child I knew that one day, I would want to give the gift of a steady stream of traditions to my own children. I also knew that I’d need to include traditions from my husband’s family. As well as new ones from other cultures and peoples that were also worthy.
The question became, how do I sort through all the possibilities to find the best ones that would help me grow a family?
Sometimes this can be answered simply by doing digging through some family history.
For ideas on how to involved children in that, please visit this post.
You may discover, as you learn the stories of your family’s past, that your great grandparents had traditions from their childhood that can bring joy to you today.
For some families, the best traditions are the simplest ones. Angi from Schneider Peeps enjoys movie and pizza night with her family each week- love her post about it here.
Some Real Life Homesteaders’ Traditions
“My family is all spread out, but when we would get together my grandparents used to make it a huge deal. Hors d’oeuvres would start around 1pm- hummus, veggies, pickled cauliflower, pita bread… We’d talk, play games, grandpa would turn on Sinatra in the family room and back patio and he and people would swing dance while he cooked dinner in his brick oven out back. Always very happy memories…”
Can’t you see the brick oven and hear the Sinatra?
Don, from The Snarky Gardener, shares
Our favorite [tradition] is to purchase a Thanksgiving turkey from a local free-range farm and name said turkey. Last year’s turkey was named Malcolm.”
Ever named a turkey Malcolm?
And, finally, Off Grid Homestead Prepper says,
“My extended family comes out to the ranch Thanksgiving weekend to set off rockets (more modern ones have cameras to take aerial photos). It is one of the rare “safe” times of year when the fire hazard is low since new green grass is coming in. They can’t fire their rockets in town so since I have 100s of acres of grassland surrounding me, it is safe. Now that the nieces and nephews are older, they also do a lot of shooting at a rifle range I have set up for them.”
Sabbaths, or Days of Rest
Whether you’re religious or not, having the tradition of at least one day per week of rest can be so beneficial for a busy family or individual. For a Christian or a Jew (and others with holy rest days), the Sabbath is a sacred day. It is set apart from the other six days of the week. Or, at least, it’s meant to be.
What to Do for this Weekly Family Tradition
Sabbath days look different from family to family. However, at its core, on the Sabbath there is a cessation of the daily toil that usually consumes our days. In my house, that means that I prepare simple meals (dinner usually comes from a slow cooker). We all refrain from unnecessary chores (though the animals are still milked and fed). If I can do a chore the following day, I do. We don’t really “laze around”, but we do move slower, sit more often and keep things on the down-low all day.
Sabbaths are also a good time to engage in activities that are worshipful, reverent or feel appropriate to you. We will sometimes “work” on family service projects. These activities may require a bit of clean up, but the heart of the work preserves the feeling of devotion and peace.
- read together
- play board games
- have family meetings
- and a special family night.
- Our religious congregation meets on our Sabbath, so we also go to church that day.
Even if a religious Sabbath isn’t in your family traditions, I encourage you to start a new family tradition by setting apart one day a week for family togetherness. Chris, from Joybilee Farm, talks about the importance of a rest day for busy homesteading families in this post, here.
If birthdays have never been your thing, that makes them a great place to start when it comes to developing family traditions.
I’m not big on blowout birthday parties, lots of gifts and too much sugar, to be honest. I prefer much simpler affairs that focus on the person.
You may be different and love a big bash, and that’s super, have so much fun! However, here are some simple ideas for making birthdays special. Without going overboard.
- Homestead Honey is a homeschooling, homesteading mom who shares with us her experience with a Waldorf-inspired birthday for her child – click here. (Here’s another delightful one where she talks about her daughter losing her tooth and the tradition they have for that – click here.)
- Creative With Kids has some birthday boy or girl relevant traditions to think about – click here.
I would never presume to intrude on the special family traditions you already have in place for your holy day, or holiday, celebrations. Even families with few traditions will usually have special food traditions for the holidays, if nothing else. However, it can be fun to learn what other homestead and farm families are doing.
Family Traditions in Winter
We have a tradition in our family for Christmas that is actually held in June. It’s called Leon Day and it’s the day we do our family name drawing for Christmas gifts and gather ideas for homemade gifts. You can read about that here.
Here’s a fun recycled gift wrap tradition from Attainable Sustainable.
We celebrate each of the Sundays of Advent, too. You can read Homestead Honey’s traditions with Advent here.
Every year we put out a crèche, or two – or three. I really love them for some reason. You can read about how to make your own nativity sets here.
From the beginning of fall through Christmas, we also do several service projects. Making scarves and hats to donate, and gifts for children like dolls. We also made baby quilts one year – that was so fun, even though I’m really not much of a seamstress. These projects help us stay focused on gratitude and joy at these times of year when it’s easy to get distracted.
Family Traditions in Spring
Easter has its own celebrations, too, including:
Kulich – a must have food
Observing, really observing, Maundy Thursday
And so many others. I hope these ideas give you your own to run with. Really, you are the best person to decide what will work in your family. I encourage you to try a variety of different traditions from around the world. Over time, decide which ones are the most meaningful for you.
Resources for Family Traditions
And, of course, you’ll need a great book.
We’d be pleased if you checked our our very own, Five Kernels of Corn! This makes a great homeschool unit study for the season, or simply a fun thing to work on with your grandkids. Being thankful is a deliberate way to be; we like to think we can help you out with that.
And, of course, there has to be a Christmas book to go along with that! Let us help you plan, prepare and execute a special Christmas this year.
Other Books for Family Traditions
When I got married, my step mother gave me these first two books and I have always cherished them. The others have come into our family over time and are now great friends:
Mrs. Sharp’s Traditions is a simply lovely book comprised of Victorian based traditions, adapted for the modern family. The book does NOT have a modern feel to it, though, which I love. The information is organized by month, taking you through the year. The book includes beautiful pictures, interesting history regarding holidays and a warm, cozy feel throughout. She also has themed party suggestions and crafts, as well as recipes.
Festivals, Family and Food is another great one, especially for you Waldorf enthusiasts. It’s companion book, The Children’s Year, is a worthy sister. Both are full of crafts and activities that follow the seasons and holidays. The authors are British, which make them an even more charming read for this Anglophile. The Children’s Year has a greater focus on crafts, especially knitting and yarn crafts. The Festivals book includes snippets from literature and recipes. I like both but if I had to pick one, it would be Festivals, Family and Food.
We’ve also enjoyed learning more about Jewish holidays with this book, The Family Treasury of Jewish Holidays – lots of stories, recipes and crafts! As Christians, we’ve really improved our Easter celebrations by celebrating Passover. We’ve made several of our holidays more meaningful by observing the yearly Jewish festivals in our own way.
Can you tell I have small children? Kids are like sponges full of Greek fire. They soak up everything and the more you throw on, the bigger their fire gets. They are so willing to be thrilled by all they learn. I’m always so grateful that my best friends are all under ten years old because nothing is ever dull!
Three More Books for Family Traditions
Speaking of never dull, there’s a book we enjoy so much we keep it out on an easel and turn the pages from month to month to follow the year. This book is penned and illustrated by one of my all time favorite authors/illustrators/gardeners, Tasha Tudor. Just the title alone is inspiring, A Time to Keep. It follows a grandmother through each month as she tells her granddaughter all the delightful things they did in “the good old days”.
For another specifically seasonal book, geared toward adults but absolutely applicable to children, is this one:
With journal prompts, crafts, recipes and more this book will gently take you through the year.
If traditions are part of your homeschool education, you may want to check out what Rooted Childhood has brewing for each month of the year. For example, November’s material includes Autumn poems, suggestions for getting your children started in the kitchen, and a great collection of seasonal handicrafts like:
- Woven wall hangings
- Beeswax wraps
- Shadow puppets
- Tin can lanterns – with lantern walk instructions
- And so much more!
Grateful for Traditions
I am also grateful for the family I have and the traditions that root me to them. I am yet more grateful to be surrounded by great books and great mentors so that each day I can improve and strengthen the ties that will bind us no matter what is happening in the world around us. So here’s to the heart of any homestead – the home.
May you make friends with many new and wholesome traditions this year!